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		<title>Breaking News: Pope Benedict Will Retire</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 12:24:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband broke the news as he handed me coffee.  From Vatican Radio: Pope Benedict XVI on Monday said he plans on resigning the papal office on February 28th. Below please find his announcement. Full text of Pope&#8217;s declaration I &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2013/02/11/breaking-news-pope-benedict-will-retire/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3514&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband broke the news as he handed me coffee.  From Vatican Radio:<a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/pope.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3516" alt="Pope" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/pope.jpg?w=640"   /></a></p>
<blockquote><p><em>Pope Benedict XVI on Monday said he plans on resigning the papal office on February 28th. Below please find his announcement.</em><br />
<a href="http://www.news.va/en/news/pope-benedict-xvi-announces-his-resignation-at-end"><em><b><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Full text of Pope&#8217;s declaration</span></b></em></a></p></blockquote>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what to say. Need coffee.</p>
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		<title>In Ireland on the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 12:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My favorite deacon and I are in Ireland visiting our daughter and her family. I have been hanging out with my beautiful grandchildren. That is why the silence from this blog has been deafening. I will resume blogging when we &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2013/02/02/in-ireland-on-the-feast-of-the-presentation-of-the-lord/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3508&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favorite deacon and I are in Ireland visiting our daughter and her family. I have <a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/presentation-of-the-lord.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3509" alt="Presentation of the Lord" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/presentation-of-the-lord.jpg?w=512&#038;h=512" width="512" height="512" /></a>been hanging out with my beautiful grandchildren. That is why the silence from this blog has been deafening.</p>
<p>I will resume blogging when we get home. But I did want to display the image above which is provided courtesy of <a href="http://stainedglassinc.com/panel-5073.html#.UQz73MX4L6R">stainedglassinc.com</a> . Check out the site especially if you are in the market for gorgeous sacred art.</p>
<p>Jimmy Akin has an interesting post on <a href="http://jimmyakin.com/2013/01/whats-happening-at-the-presentation-of-the-lord.html">today&#8217;s feast</a>, which is also my dad&#8217;s birthday. Happy Birthday Dad.</p>
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		<title>As Christmas Draws to an End</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2013 23:03:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The good news is that today was a very productive work day for me. Unfortunately, that means that I didn&#8217;t get time to post. I had wanted to write on the reading from the Divine Office for today, because it &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2013/01/11/as-christmas-draws-to-an-end/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3505&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The good news is that today was a very productive work day for me. Unfortunately, <a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/baptism-of-jesus-icon1.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3506" alt="Baptism-of-Jesus-Icon1" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/baptism-of-jesus-icon1.jpg?w=410&#038;h=274" width="410" height="274" /></a>that means that I didn&#8217;t get time to post. I had wanted to write on the reading from the Divine Office for today, because it resonated with me.</p>
<p>Fortunately <a href="http://www.patheos.com/blogs/theanchoress/2013/01/11/pillar-of-cloud-water-of-life-all-of-a-healing-piece-peace/">The Anchoress</a> was also struck by the reading, and she did post on it.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;For a little while longer, we are still in Christmas, but every day the mysteries of the season seem to wither a little, like the leaves of the poinsettias; the expectation of Advent seems far away, and in just a few days we celebrate the Baptism of the Lord, and enter — with some sense of refreshment, because after a time we long for the comforts of what is routine and regular — into Ordinary Time.</em></p>
<p><em>The Baptism of the Lord is being presaged in the readings and prayers of <a href="http://divineoffice.org/">the Divine Office</a>. In Advent we prayed, “Drop down dew…heaven, pour down your water from above; let the just one descend. Open up O earth, and let the savior bud forth…” And now, we are thinking of water again — this continual saturation of presence:&#8221; </em><a href="">Continue Reading&#8230;</a></p></blockquote>
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		<title>&#8220;Put No Trust in Princes&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2013 22:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Put no trust in princes, in children of Adam powerless to   save. Who breathing his last, returns to the earth; that day all his planning comes to nothing.Psalm 146:3-4 There is a lot of post election blues and even some &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2013/01/10/put-no-trust-in-princes/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3493&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Put no trust in princes, in children of Adam powerless to   <a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/political-tee-shirt2.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3499" alt="Political tee shirt2" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/political-tee-shirt2.jpg?w=301&#038;h=241" width="301" height="241" /></a>save. Who breathing his last, returns to the earth; that day all his planning comes to nothing.<em>Psalm 146:3-4</em></p></blockquote>
<p>There is a lot of post election blues and even some anger in the pews. This is not reserved to the more Republican than Catholic crowd. I have encountered strong emotions among those who have a strong Catholic identity and have no party loyalty.</p>
<p>They just feel helpless living in a culture that is rapidly sliding into a moral sewer and that is isolating those who strive to live a life in obedience to Christ.</p>
<p>These faithful Catholics hoped that the Republicans were truly pro-life contrary to the mounting evidence.</p>
<p>But Jesus is the only reason for our hope. To put our faith in earthly princes is pure folly. The only way to bring about peace and justice based on the dignity of the human person is to proclaim the Gospel to everyone that we encounter.</p>
<p>To do this we must love. Muscular, self-giving sacrificial, and heroic Christian love. We must love with joy. This is impossible, of course, without God’s grace.</p>
<p>I am a long way from loving like a true disciple.</p>
<p>So I find myself on my knees praying for a loving heart and the courage to truly live the Gospel in the world without retreating into an interior hermitage.</p>
<p>It is not going to be easy. Our political system is becoming more and more fractured. The divisions are becoming insurmountable.</p>
<p>As <a href="http://www.patheos.com/blogs/markshea/2013/01/i-gotta-get-me-one-of-these-2.html">Mark Shea</a> writes:</p>
<p>“American politics often seems to boil down to the same two groups of enemies shouting “My rights!” “Dead children!” and then switching sides depending on whose ox is being gored. Sometimes, to spice things up, they switch to calling each other Hitler.”</p>
<p>Jesus prayed that we would be in the world, but not of the world for a reason.</p>
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		<title>The Theology of the Barn Yard</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2013 16:34:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People find themselves drawn to the Catholic Church and the RCIA for many different reasons. Each person has a unique conversion story. A few years ago there was a man who came through our RCIA that made quite an impression &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2013/01/09/the-theology-of-the-barn-yard/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3490&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People find themselves drawn to the Catholic Church and the <a href="http://foryourmarriage.org/what-is-the-rcia/">RCIA f</a>or many different <a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/theology-of-the-barn.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3491" alt="Theology of the barn" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/theology-of-the-barn.jpg?w=448&#038;h=336" width="448" height="336" /></a>reasons. Each person has a unique conversion story. A few years ago there was a man who came through our RCIA that made quite an impression on my favorite deacon.</p>
<p>It seems that this man had hit rock bottom. He was a slave to drink and other vices. One day he found himself, as a day laborer, mucking out a filthy barn. Somehow he managed to clean out the barn. This led to an epiphany: if he could clean up such a filthy place, then he could clean up—muck out—his soul. The man reasoned that he could, with God’s help, clean up his life.</p>
<p>My deacon speaks of this man’s conversion often; he calls it the “Theology of the Barn Yard”</p>
<p>It is a reminder that we all fall short of the glory of God. That is why Jesus gave us the merciful sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation. If we confess and repent, God will always takes us back. He  picks us up when we fall face down in the mud and muck.</p>
<p>And unlike <em>Humpty Dumpty</em>, the King of Kings can put us back together when we are broken.</p>
<p>Dr. Tom Neal, over at <a href="http://nealobstat.wordpress.com/2013/01/09/fire-and-muck/">Neal Obstat</a> has a thought provoking post up that reminded me of The Theology of the Barn Yard.</p>
<p>Excerpt:</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>God of Muck</strong></em></p>
<p><em>“Then I recalled a gentleman I have written of in this Blog before (the one about vulgarity) who returned to the Church after many years away. He had a gut-wrenching and heart-ripping experience in the confessional with an old monk that left him utterly changed (and to this day, years later, even more so). He described his confession this way: “It was like I was sinking in sewage and Jesus grabbed my hand and pulled me out. I’d never felt so clean in my life. After it was over, the monk said to me: now, the Lord has taken you to himself again, clothed you in white garments and re-lit the flame of faith that was blown out in your soul after your baptism. Now, keep it that way! It was like Jesus himself was talking to me!”</em></p>
<p><em>God conspired for a whole history in time to give us this reconciling Sacrament, like a bridegroom consumed by love for a bride who has spurned him; a Bridegroom who spares nothing to win her love back.</em></p>
<p><em>We Catholics really tend to domesticate our faith, but truth is our Sacraments transact absolutely, totally, completely crazy stuff — stuff that could only have been dreamed up by (a la Catherine of Siena) Dio, pazzo d’Amore, God, the mad Lover.</em></p>
<p><em>Look for Him at your next Confession.” <a href="http://nealobstat.wordpress.com/2013/01/09/fire-and-muck/">Read Fire and Muck&#8230;</a></em></p></blockquote>
<p>I must add a fourth resolution to <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2013/01/08/happy-new-year-revolution/">yesterday’s post:</a> Get thee to Confession more often!</p>
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		<title>Happy New Year Revolution</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 16:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup.  It is me; still breathing. Out of hiding at last. I hope that you and yours are <a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/prayer-on-my-knees4.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3485" alt="prayer-on-my-knees4" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/prayer-on-my-knees4.jpg?w=448&#038;h=297" width="448" height="297" /></a>having a very blessed Christmas season.</p>
<p>This has been a challenging Christmas season in Casa Kehoe. My dear husband was and is the only deacon on board (for Christmas) at our parish for the 6<sup>th</sup> year in a row. The poor guy never really had a day off. To make matters worse, he was in charge of year end inventory (as per usual) at his day job.</p>
<p>So it has been over 6 years since we have been able to be with our children and grandchildren for Christmas. We will be going to Ireland to visit our daughter and her family in a few weeks, and we were with our son and his family for Thanksgiving. But it would be nice…</p>
<p>But I am not whining. Honest. I knew what I was getting into when I gave my permission to the bishop for my favorite deacon to be ordained.</p>
<p>At least it proved to be a fruitful time for me, as I had plenty of time for taking a self inventory.  The result? It is time to make some radical changes. Hence the reference to New Year <span style="text-decoration:line-through;">Resolutions</span>  Revolution.</p>
<p>Why Revolution. What I need is a radical change. A transformation of body, mind, and soul.  As John the Baptist said, <i>He must increase; I must decrease</i>. (Jn 3:30)</p>
<p>Since I am weak when it comes to staying the course, I am going to go public with my resolutions.  At the very least it will be a much needed lesson in humility.</p>
<p>Here goes. Gulp.</p>
<ol>
<li><b>Pray more.</b> My prayer life is pathetic. I just have to make the time to sit in the presence of God, no matter how busy or tired I am, throughout the day. As St. Paul exhorts: pray without ceasing.</li>
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<blockquote><p><i>“All highest glorious God, cast your light in to the depths of my heart.<br />
Give me right faith, firm hope, perfect charity, profound humility, with wisdom and truth<br />
so that I may do what is truly your holy will.”</i> (<em>Prayer of St. Francis of Assisi)</em></p></blockquote>
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<li><b>Surrender More</b>. Turn myself—and all of my troubles, worries, and needs over to God. As the first antiphon from today’s Office of readings says, <i>Surrender to God, and he will do everything for you.</i> For a lovely reflection on surrendering to God read <a href="http://nealobstat.wordpress.com/2013/01/01/father-into-your-hands-i/">this post from Dr. Tom Neal.</a></li>
<li> <b>Love others more</b>. This means being a better wife, mother, daughter, friend, and yes, blogger. The plan is to blog at least once a day (Monday-Friday) starting now. It is so easy to become overwhelmed by work and illness. It makes for an easy excuse to retreat from the world. Heck even hermits have people over for dinner in their hermitage. We need to start offering hospitality to our friends again.</li>
<li><b>Eat less.</b> Since the body is as integral to being human as the soul, I am going to shed a few pounds this year. Think of it this way: losing weight is an outward sign that Jesus is increasing while I am decreasing. I hope. That is my story and I am sticking to it. Heh.</li>
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<p>The bottom line is that I am going to work on, with God’s grace, being a true muscular disciple of Christ Jesus.</p>
<p>It is time to fix my gaze on the Cross, so that I do not lose sight of heaven.</p>
<p>Related: <b><i><a href="http://nealobstat.wordpress.com/2013/01/08/fear-of-lord/">Be Afraid</a> </i></b> by <a title="View all posts by Thomas J. Neal, Ph.D." href="http://nealobstat.wordpress.com/author/drtomneal/">Thomas J. Neal, Ph.D.</a></p>
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		<title>Reasons to Vote for the Not Obama Candidate</title>
		<link>http://adeaconswife.com/2012/10/13/reasons-to-vote-for-the-not-obama-candidate/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2012 20:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am simply Catholic. Not a Democrat. Not a Republican. This election has my brain in a twist. On one hand, I can&#8217;t vote for Obama. He has jumped the shark on abortion and freedom of religion. On the other &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2012/10/13/reasons-to-vote-for-the-not-obama-candidate/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3474&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am simply Catholic. Not a Democrat. Not a Republican. This election has my brain <a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/voting-booth1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3479" title="voting booth" alt="" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/voting-booth1.jpg?w=640"   /></a>in a twist. On one hand, I can&#8217;t vote for Obama. He has jumped the shark on abortion and freedom of religion. On the other hand I am not comfortable with voting for the may be slightly better Romney.</p>
<p>So do I hold my nose, vote for Romney, and hope for the best? Or do I write in a candidate?</p>
<p>The Vice presidential debate was not helpful. Catholic Biden was condescending and patronizing. His &#8220;I am personally apposed to abortion but..&#8221; stance is as old as it is wrong. Ryan was not much better as a Catholic.  According to him Abortion is just fine in certain circumstances. So much for the inherent dignity of human life.</p>
<p>I have (maybe) decided to vote for Mr. Not Obama because:</p>
<p>1. If he ousts Obama, the press will without a doubt stop being cheerleaders for the president no matter what he does. Accountability Yea!  Oh and maybe somebody in the MSM will speak out about the administration&#8217;s  <a href="http://www.patheos.com/blogs/markshea/2012/10/kyle-cupp-gets-it.html">kill list </a>and drones.</p>
<p>2. The war protesters will return. Yea I know they were really protesting Bush. Still someone needs to be questioning the war in Iraq.</p>
<p>3.  It is just down to voting for the guy who will do the least harm. The not Obama Candidate is, in my opinion, that guy.</p>
<p>But I am convinced neither candidate cares about ordinary Americans. They live in their own little elite bubble. Romney and Obama think that they are our betters.</p>
<p>That is why I put my trust in Jesus not earthly princes.</p>
<p>Lord have mercy.</p>
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		<title>How to Fail as a Blogger</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2012 20:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t blog for over a month. I don&#8217;t need 10 ways to fail.  Sigh. OK. I am going to try to be a faithful blogger. Frankly I thought of throwing in the keyboard, but the Holy Spirit keeps nudging me. &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2012/10/11/how-to-fail-as-a-blogger/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3471&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t blog for over a month. I don&#8217;t need 10 ways to fail.  Sigh. OK. I am going to try to be <a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/fail-at-blogging.png"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3472" title="Fail at Blogging" alt="" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/fail-at-blogging.png?w=358&#038;h=239" height="239" width="358" /></a>a faithful blogger. Frankly I thought of throwing in the keyboard, but the Holy Spirit keeps nudging me.</p>
<p>I might be a lazy/ overworked/ procrastinator, but I am a persistent one!</p>
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		<title>Can the Clock Be Turned Back on the Sexual Revolution?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2012 13:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kathleen Jean Lopex interviews Mary Eberstadt on her latest book Adam and Eve After the Pill . Excerpt: Lopez:   Given the seminal event the introduction of the contraceptive pill was, and the ubiquitous nature of contraception in American lives, &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2012/09/05/can-the-clock-be-turned-back-on-the-sexual-revolution/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3468&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kathleen Jean Lopex interviews Mary Eberstadt on her latest book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1586176277/ref=nosim/catholiceduca-20">Adam and Eve </a><a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2012/09/adamneve.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3469" title="adamneve" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2012/09/adamneve.jpg?w=416&#038;h=312" alt="" width="416" height="312" /></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1586176277/ref=nosim/catholiceduca-20">After the Pill</a> . Excerpt:</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Lopez</span>:   Given the seminal event the introduction of the contraceptive pill was, and the ubiquitous nature of contraception in American lives, is turning back the clock, as they say, realistic?</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Eberstadt</span>:  The vehemence with which people say that the clock can never be turned back on the sexual revolution is pretty ironic.  Just think of all the times you heard that phrase during the debates over the HHS mandate — or the one about not putting the genie back in the bottle, or not ever returning to the 1950s, etc.</p>
<p>All these clichés are shorthand for one word: <em>inevitability</em>.  A lot of people for a lot of reasons want to claim that everything about this revolution is now a permanent fact of life, off-limits for contrarian interpretation.  And what&#8217;s really interesting about that embrace of the idea of inevitability is that history has shown time and again that human beings just don&#8217;t operate that way.</p>
<p>As Karl Popper showed in <em>The Poverty of Historicism</em>, history is not, in fact, on the side of movements claiming inevitability for themselves.  Just ask the Communists .  .  .  if you can find any.  No social movement gets a special dispensation from history, no matter how badly some people might want it to.  Human beings are not only moral creatures but also rational ones, at least collectively and over time, and the empirical record about the dark side of the sexual revolution will eventually make a dent. As mentioned, I think it already has made one.</p>
<p>Over time, many people do change their minds when faced with empirical evidence that something causes harm.  Anyone who doubts it should try lighting up a cigarette today in New York City.  All the talk in the world about genies and bottles won&#8217;t get you out of that ticket<a href="http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/sexuality/se0243.htm">.  Read more…</a></p>
<p>Yes indeed. The real <a href="http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/politics/sns-rt-us-usa-campaign-womenbre88401t-20120904,0,1070258.story">“war on women</a>” has been going on for decades.</p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s a Mad Mad World</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Aug 2012 14:12:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Kehoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is just plain nuts (H/T New Advent: Hunter Spanjer says his name with a certain special hand gesture, but at just three and a half years old, he may have to change it. &#8220;He&#8217;s deaf, and his name sign, &#8230; <a href="http://adeaconswife.com/2012/08/29/its-a-mad-mad-world/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=adeaconswife.com&#038;blog=13423626&#038;post=3463&#038;subd=adeaconswife&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is just plain nuts (<strong>H/T <a href="http://www.newadvent.org/">New Advent</a></strong>: <a href="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/political_correctness_gone_mad.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-3464" title="political_correctness_gone_mad" src="http://adeaconswife.files.wordpress.com/2012/08/political_correctness_gone_mad.jpg?w=350&#038;h=263" alt="" width="350" height="263" /></a></p>
<blockquote><p><em>Hunter Spanjer says his name with a certain special hand gesture, but at just three and a half years old, he may have to change it.</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;He&#8217;s deaf, and his name sign, they say, is a violation of their weapons policy,&#8221; explained Hunter&#8217;s father, Brian Spanjer.</em></p>
<p><em>Grand Island&#8217;s &#8220;Weapons in Schools&#8221; Board Policy 8470 forbids &#8220;any instrument&#8230;that looks like a weapon,&#8221; But a three year-old&#8217;s hands?</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Anybody that I have talked to thinks this is absolutely ridiculous. This is not threatening in any way,&#8221; said Hunter&#8217;s grandmother Janet Logue.</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;It&#8217;s a symbol. It&#8217;s an actual sign, a registered sign, through S.E.E.,&#8221; Brian Spanjer said.</em></p>
<p><em>S.E.E. stands for Signing Exact English, Hunter&#8217;s sign language. Hunter&#8217;s name gesture is modified with crossed-fingers to show it is uniquely his own.</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;We are working with the parents to come to the best solution we can for the child,&#8221; said Jack Sheard, Grand Island Public Schools spokesperson.<a href="http://www.1011now.com/home/headlines/Grand-Island-Preschooler-Forbidden-Sign-Language-for-His-Own-Name-167394325.html"> Continue Reading&#8230;</a><br />
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<p>That this happened in <em>conservative</em> Nebraska in a rural area points to the fact that Political Correctness has gone viral.  I am just about speechless.</p>
<p>But I do have a question. Back when I was a progressive Catholic, I did not allow my son to have toy guns. It was futile. He used everything in sight as a pretend gun including his sister&#8217;s stuffed animals.</p>
<p>So what happens to a boy at this school who dares to use his hands as pretend pistols? Expulsion?  Sigh.</p>
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